Hello there;
It’s been a while since I have written my blog… I am missing it! I have created time to write…
It’s been an interesting year; full of upheaval; clients and friends hitting lows; and even situations and challenges being played out in my own life and both my sons.
Thankfully, let’s be in gratitude as with the New Moon last Friday night 30th September 2016; comes the endings of issues and new beginnings or NEW OPPORTUNITIES that will be presented to you. Especially, to those that are consciously aware and able to work through and heal what they are meant to heal during the past year.
For myself and my family; June to September 2016 were months to redirect our attention and turn our love to ourselves! We found ourselves being ‘dragged down’ by others. Of course, the others did not see this consciously and not aware that they are doing this. It offered us a massive opportunity to delve deeper and we were all able to see the ‘illusion’ and what was clearly going on and be able to heal our own selves.
An ‘illusion’ is part of the dynamic of when you interact with another person. This illusion allows each person’s soul to ‘perceive’ what it needs to understand in order to heal. Your personality is of the illusion and at times the ego states of fear, anger, hurt, defensiveness, envy and jealousy maybe being ‘played out’ in situations/events.
When our personality is aligned with our soul; we are able to ‘see through the illusion’ or as I say; ‘you are able to see through the games/situations/events being played out’ and able to heal ourselves within. If you are able to see the illusion on a soulful level, then you are not drawn into the ‘drama’/situations/events. Living in love and light, you are able to see the illusion and be positive, authentic, empowered and power-ful. How transformational is that!!
I found it was the past week; that I am able to really detach (NOT REPRESS OR DENY!!!) from situations in the school yard and my own community groups; where situations were being ‘played out’.
For me, being ‘dragged down’ or this person trying to ‘bring me down’ when I hadn’t done anything wrong was a healing time for me. During that week; I sat in my heart space and expressed my feelings and truly felt them – a whole range of them: ‘hurt, sadness, victim – ‘why me’, anger, upset. I came through the other end with a feeling of love. Love for myself and love for the other person. An acceptance of letting go too.
On further healings; it related to past life times and I cleared the ‘being dragged down’ issue that had occurred around three times (and possibly more!). A common theme that kept repeating in this life and therefore the opportunity for me to truly heal. Yippee – How fortunate and lucky am I! 🙂
For my boys; it’s teaching them to ‘see through the illusion’ and what is authentically going on. My boys received many conscious positive learnings during this time. They are now happy; learning resilience; keeping their hearts open; tuning into their intuition; consciously aware of what really is going on and able to apply strategies to assist them if situations re-emerge or reoccur. Amazing for 8 and 10 year olds! As one door shuts for my boys; another door re-opens including connected relationships and friendships and authentic leadership.
I have been practicing the following tips and teaching my boys too. It’s been an incredible journey.. and with the end of September 2016; comes a time to review my positive learnings and healings and be ready and open to allow opportunities to present themselves.
TIPS TO ALLOW OPPORTUNITIES TO YOU!
1. Release any attachments to the past. Let go of limiting beliefs and old patterns that don’t serve you anymore!
2. Any situation/challenge – to find out if any ‘past life’ memory is being triggered and clear or heal it.
3 Spend time in your heat space and FEEL. Write your feelings down and be authentic! IT’S VERY OK TO FEEL!.
4. Ensure you feel and release your negative feelings. Then embrace and bring on positive feelings for yourself and others. For me this is LOVE… Love for me and love for the other person.
5 .Be gentle on yourself.. We are all in different parts of a cycle.. We all rise and we all fall… We are all learning and healing!
6. Meditate daily – Spend time BEING rather than DOING…
7. Tune into your own intuition on what to do… Listen to the whispers of your soul.. Your soul knows…
8. Detach from situation/challenge (this does NOT mean to repress or deny it!) Detach and look at the illusion and what’s really going on.. Find the positive learnings for YOU! It may look bleak at first, however there are positive learnings for us all. These positive learnings are your healings…
9. Be in Flow… Find strategies to be in Flow…
10. Trust in our expansive universe with timing.. BE OPEN and READY to receive Opportunities that will present themselves!
October 2016 is an exciting time to be consciously aware and move forwards in your life whether it is being even more connected with relationships; knowing that you are on track with your soul’s calling; acceptance of any changes with your job, project or business; letting go of relationships that are not serving you… and most importantly being OPEN and READY to allow yourself to receive opportunities coming your way!
Love and wisdom
Emily xx
Emily Murphy is an Intuitive Life Coach Consultant with a 25 year extensive history in health, energy studies and life, personal and spiritual growth coaching. Emily has tailored coaching packages giving you loads of strategies and tools to empower you to create the life you love! For more information contact Emily on emily@empowerwithin.com.au